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REACTIVE VS PROACTIVE
Most people are reactive, especially in Business, jobs, money.
Reactive means to be “at effect’
What does ‘at effect’ mean?
It means something (or someone) causes an event and that event has an effect on you.
You then react to the action that someone else caused.
In other world, reactive people wait
Reactive people blame outside people or events
When I was poor, I was reactive
I blame the economy
I blamed my bosses
I blamed my bad jobs
I reacted to them
So I felt powerless.
When you are proactive, what do you do?
You take action
You decide your goals and you move forward
You blame yourself, you take responsibility 100%.
Reactive person complains about their low pay
A proactive person learns business skills to increase their income
A reactive person blame the economy
A proactive person looks for new opportunities in an economy
A reactive person feels stress about business and money
A Proactive person feels excited about business and money
A reactive person feels powerless
A proactive person feels powerful.
When you are proactive, you say: “I am responsible”
When you are proactive, you constantly learn & improve
A reactive person waits for the world to changes
But when you are proactive, you work to change yourself, learn new skills
You connect with new people.
You make mistakes and you learn from them
You learn from successful people
You take action
Successful people are proactive.
You must be proactive to be free.
I changed my life when I became proactive
I stopped blaming and started learning.
I learned business skills
I learned communication skills
I practiced, make mistakes and learned again
The simplest key to your success is…
As you focus on constant learning, you improve…
As you improve, you get more opportunities…
As you get more opportunities, you succeed more…
As you succeed, you feel stronger and happier…
As you feel stronger and happier, you become more proactive
Up, up, up, up you go
This is called an “Upward spiral”
It means, your proactive attitude creates more & more & more success
Forget blaming, focus on action.
What actions will you take to learn more business skills?
What actions will you take to improve your communication?
How will you learn?
How will you grow?
Focus on those questions everyday…
And you move towards success & freedom automatically.
You are proactive
Be proactive every day
And share your success with other people.
(Rút từ tài liệu của Nông Dân học lúc mới sang Mỹ)